First of all when one is alive
and active how can there be retirement in life ? We disengage from one career
and engage in different profession to start SECOND INNING.
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I have achieved most of my professional ambitions and having my children
well
settled I have drawn a line of contentment and decided to pursue a
different
life style after convincing my family This is response to my inner voice
calling to do something different somewhat different for some years now.
It
took nearly a years to plan to choose a different life style I have
chosen a
different life style engaging myself with some social organization like
HELPAGE
INDIA (Coordinator) AND INDIAN RED CROSS SOCIETY and promoting awareness
programme for senior citizens, so that they can live with dignity, and
engage them within their present environment , so that they do
not feel lonely and neglected within home and society. Analyzing what i
am
going to miss or loose and what I stand to gain after choosing a
different life
style the gain features scored over loss. Let me narrate what they are.
WHAT I STAND TO MISS?
It is more of miss rather than a loose
I miss my colleagues and Bank customers and lot of contacts, the government
officials very dearly. The get together, reminiscences of good old days, healthy
discussion, helping hand under difficult situations will remain green in my
memory.
I am fully aware that whatever I miss can never be regained. I have pondered
over these points for a long time. The longer the time I took, the picture
emerged clear that I will be experiencing the same benefits and contacts much
like my earlier years. I am always reminded the golden words of LORD BUDDHA that
human birth is as rare as a morning star. After great contemplation I have
decided to seek a different life style wherein I will be able to answer my
inner voice. Now it is time for me to draw a line of contentment regarding
professional life. l
WHAT I HAVE GAINED?
1] TIME
a] Time for myself
The most valuable gain is the time for myself. I am free to choose what I want
to do rather than what I have to do. I am free to alter my schedule to suit my
other engagements, programme etc even at the last minute. I am only answerable
to my inner voice. Daily wakeup time, bed time may be changed to suit my
engagements. I am able to spend time for my school time hobby to collect stamps
(Philately), participated in district
level and state level exhibitions, apart from winning medals, earn name and
fame, broad coverage was given by print and electronic media. There is more
than enough time to remain in solitude, introspect with, conscious breath. to
remain in solitude is indeed is a great boon for seniors like us wherein we
realize our shortcomings, egoism. Silence in solitude motivates us to become
compassionate with love and empathy. I am able to express my opinion on social
issues, written more than 300 critics, which are published in State and National level newspapers , and it is
continuing. Two Appreciation letter, for
best letter writing was given by the leading news paper of eastern India
PRABHAT KHABAR. Got a chance to work as moderator in SBIAPA Bengal circle, and
able solve many queries raised by the fellow pensioners.
MY published
article:
Second Inning
Magazine, SBI Central Office, Mumbai on many issues.
Annual Magazine
TARPAN, published by Govt of Bihar on the occasion of Pitripaksh.
Monthly Magazine
KENDRA BHARATI, published by Vivekananda Kendra –MY article almost every month.
INDIAN
RAILWAY – Monthly magazine by Indian
Railways.
Patliputra News
Letter quarterly magazine published by SBI Patna LHO
Letter to editor;
Critics published in Hindustan times, Prabhat Khbar, Business standard Hindi
(Almost Daily),Telegraph etc.
And there are so
many small articles in news papers and various Blogs/face book etc.
Many senior
citizens whom I meet gives me food for
thought, while rejuvenating my spirit and self belief. I have ample time for
leisurely reading various magazines Another most valuable asset is that I have
established contact with citizens/ pensioners with different life style people ,retired
from various department, to whom I got a chance to serve during my service
period. It is really soul satisfying to meet people with alternate interest and
learn from them and exchange views . I have been fortunate to become a member
of HELPAGE INDIA AND INDIAN RED CROSS SOCIETY, Association of Senior citizens
associations of Bihar, SBI Pensioners association etc:
THE ART OF LISTENING:
The value of this art I have realized only after retirement. Listening to various
people, they are happy after having expressed their sufferings opinion in their
own words and develop confidence in me . I am also able to understand their
character, behaviOr, temperament etc. I am also becoming more mature and
influences me to develop compassion, and care.
Quite likely the lingering I ego in me will be got rid of soon. I have learn a
lot and still learning .Slowly I have become to respect others opinion and
views and not trying to contradict them
STRESS FREE LIFE:
For a Banker there was always a stress.
Now I don’t worry when cell phone or the front door bell rings. In fact I sleep
better undisturbed and wake up fresh. I have leisurely meals enjoying every
bite of it as such my digestion and bowel habits are at ease.
Over the last 40 years of professional carrier I have developed wide circle. To
maintain the rapport and the confidence of my grateful friends continue to hear
them and try to help as an when needed. I am happy for them.
About Author
ANIL K SAXENA
RETIRED
BRANCH MANAGER, STATE BANK OF INDIA, SHREE RADHA SADAN, HOUSE 273, A.P. COLONY,
GAYA – 823001
MOB 9431272010
Email saxenaak273@yahoo.co.in